QUOTE (Jryan @ Jan 31 2009, 05:17 PM)

A girl his age asked if he was colored. The teacher who was African American said "Excuse me" giving her ample time to correct her self, but she still said it the same way "Is he colored?" The teacher said, "If your asking is he African American the answer is Yes,". Now she might have been raised this way but don't you learn things on TV and in life in general? I was shocked.
Interesting story. My grandmother, who I generally consider to be a great person, told a story once. She said sometime in the 70s in west Texas, a 'colored boy' was walking down the street. I was bothered by this and started to say something, but I gave ther the benefit of the doubt. She said 'this colored boy was coming down the sidewalk and I was walking toward him, and all of a sudden two white guys came up and said, "Hey boy, this white woman is on the sidewalk, and you need to step into the street and let her by." My grandmother said she yelled at the white guys and told the "colored boy" to come have some drinks with her at the bar, which he did. I then told her that that was a great story, but these days "African American" is the preferred term, or black. It was just odd that she didn't consider "colored" the least bit derogatory and would never use it in a derogatory manner.
On a side note, I think "African-American" is the preferred term, but I much prefer 'black'. I'm not a European-American. Most black people have been in the US for 10 generations and aren't African any more than I am. Charlize Theron is an African-American, being from South Africa. Haitians are black, but not African-Americans (although their ancesters were all from Africa centuries ago). I prefer it for accuracy, but also because attaching race to nationality is a bad precedent. Within a generation or so, it's fair to say someone is immigrant more than American (which isn't a bad thing). But after a couple generations, it's counter-productive to say someone is some nationality other than American, regardless how committed they are to their heritage.