QUOTE (Winky_Cutto @ Jan 18 2009, 11:00 PM)

Um, yeah... ditto to all that.
UST/Flirting tends to go over in a show much better than actual relationships (IMHO)... its keeps the show fresh and interesting, not to mention allows for writers to keep many groups of fans happy paying off a little bit of all relationship possibilities. The moment a relationship actually *happens* in a TV show, the show often seems to lose something, a spark, an unexpectedness. While fans long for certain couples to get together, sometimes the triangles and unknown is actually more interesting in the long run.
I very much agree. My favorite example of this is Ed. Looked very likely to fans and the media that the show wouldn't be picked up for a 4th season as the 3rd one ended, so the writers ended it on a wonderful note...after all of Ed's hemming and hawing, he made his choice and decided he wanted to be with Carol. Beautiful, blissful, romantic final moments in that season's last episode.
But then, all of the sudden...bam....it gets picked up for a 4th season. And suddenly, the Ed-Carol relationship was solid, and the writers had to actually write it...and that whole season just felt forced and didn't feel like the best note for the show to go out on.
Oh, and, you know, it'd be nice for a show to show that two people who are attracted to each other can flirt and do the little awkward dance around the issue, but that they can still be friends. That happens
very often in life, and it's good to knowthat my two of my favorite crime fighters go through it, too.