QUOTE (Quaxo @ Jul 24 2008, 02:14 PM)

I think Bobby needs to heal himself before he goes back to healing others.
I definitely see what you're saying. I just have the feeling he won't do it without some external motivation pushing him to make that effort. He'll just throw himself into his work and stuff his own hurts on the back shelf. I'm thinking being a father figure to Donny would mean he'd feel an obligation to be a good example to him and that would include exhibiting healthy behavior. In attempting to hlep Donny he'd help himself as a byproduct. I just don't see him having enough self worth at this point to put in the effort just for his own benefit.
Another thing that makes me think Donny could be good for him is that, unlike Francis, he's not a lost cause. For all his caretaking, Bobby could never make his mother better. But with Donny he's got a chance to make a real difference. Instead of being a hopeless bottomless pit of need, Donny could turn his life around.
Of course there is no way it'll happen without a struggle. This is a television drama after all.
Anyway, it's just a thought. So far Rene Balcer has yet to call me for advice as to where the show should be heading.... LOL