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Er, really? Innumberable stories in Reader's Digest serve to contradict that statement. Not to mention tons of feel-good reality-based movies and Lifetime dramas. [Or anyway things that seem like they'd play on Lifetime, unless it's the Golden Girls or Mad About You I don't really like the station.] More particularly, she mentioned in one episode that her recruitment to the US Marshalls was somewhat accidental, so it seems quite possible she'd wind up there (instead of the military, which is another route I could see Mary taking. Oh gosh, tie her over with NCIS and I will die of Squee.)
Heh. You're not afraid to debate - that's awesome, and I mean that sincerely!
As Marshall would say, I'm pretty sure that it would all be academic - I'm taking Mary as a true-to- life character, and since Reader's Digest and Lifetime are diverting, I don't always see some of the stuff they turn out as necessarily reality-based themselves, more of what they
think women want to see... again, academic. But I do need to go back and look at the ep where Mary refers to becoming a marshall, and I really think more background might help make the family storyline fit better. I know in entertainment it's show, not tell, but I think the audience could benefit from some exposition.
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Ah. Would she be more palatable if she still resided in the old homestead, and could scrape by on her own?
Interesting choice of words. No, the character's living with Mary doesn't bother me. It's why and how she lives with Mary - I need a little tell, as the show hasn't quite revealed that much.
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Double ah. What I'm reading into this comment is that if the show gave us a little more background, along the lines of the stuff I'm assuming about her character, she would be less horrible. Perhaps? For those out there who dislike her, what assumptions about her life do you have, if any?
I think the assumptions I have about Jinx's life right now is that she's clearly heartbroken over Mary's father even now, and that she really truly believed Prince Charming was coming and is...still...waiting. While she's pretending bon vivant now, there has been no indication that she has any talents, interests or skills and appears to spend her free time either drinking in her daughter's backyard or picking up men in bars so they can come home with her to drink in her daughter's backyard. She's not a person I personally would have much use for, because at any generation she comes off as a bit shallow and boring, although my initial assessment is "selfish" is receding based on the last episode with her selling the box and clearly caring that she can't repay Mary, although the possibility of getting kicked out was the primary motivator.
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Quite correct ;] Really, I'm a terrible feminist. Horrible. It makes me sad because I don't mean to be, but there it is.
Feminism is a mess, and while I'm classified as one, I'm more for asserting women are people rather than behavior patterns. Really. Even if it doesn't 100% look like it here. It's a complex discussion, probably for a different forum.
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I have to wince at the Xena argument though. Because the receipt of the show was tempered by a theme of lesbianism, intentional or not, which to me indicates reactionary, rather than progressive, stereotyping.
While the Reimi brothers aren't always, hm, progressive? when it comes to women, they were very good at responding to their audiences that were progressive. The price the audience paid was the Reimi brothers filter on how they viewed strong women characters. This would make for a very interesting discussion, academically.

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Another part of me -needs- to add the coda that a lengthy history of progressively emancipated female leads gave us Xena as a serialized diversion. From "I Love Lucy" to "That Girl" to "The Mary Tyler Moore Show." We saw females lag the reality of the nation, true, but it is important to view the trend of televised representation. Because within such a historical context, the simple ability to create a fictional female -without- the historical male-dependance becomes a liberal viewpoint. And I think that the 90s gave us a number of shows that were, in essence, designed specificially in -opposition- to male-dependance (like Ally McBeal.) Which is where I grabbed the 'fad' nomincalature - I sort of see a reactionary faddish trend, (but I was also born in the 80s so I know I'm a little messed up about time periods thence to hence.)
I was born in the mid 70s, so I was around to be aware of the first wave of backlash. I see the division as this: yes, Mary Tyler Moore and I Love Lucy were definitely examples of women assuming power roles - but they hid that from the audience. Lucille Ball's character had a relationship with her spouse that frequently cast him in a role as a babysitter - that's not really a message of empowerment to send to audiences, but it is what producers felt the audience was prepared to recieve.
As to whether it's a liberal or conservative viewpoint... liberal ideas have a tendency to become conservative ones with enough time. I recall something in my history lessons about the earth NOT revolving around the sun getting some guy's head cut off once. And I don't think In Plain Sight is presenting anything new or any uncovered territory; at this point a female action lead isn't a groundbreaking concept. I'm just glad they're not making Mary apologize for herself.
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Buuuuut... See, that's where I'm coming from. Now at least. I have a granny who emigrated from the Ukraine, worked blue collar jobs and at 80 years old, still raises some of her children and grandchildren. Not still raising daddy though, who was the most independant of the brood. I think I'm also the least favourite grandchild. Though iroically also the most educated.
The tough old broad is a cultural universal, and thank whoever for her because it's about something so much deeper and more important than politics and feminism. She might get cast as a witch in fairytales, but the world needs them - whether it's your Ukrainian grandmother or my Bucza, who was a traditional family Catholic, who, upon being mugged somehow wound up with her mugger's wallet by the time the police got there. Do I want to be her? Probably not - she believed in things like old-school betrothals and keeping the youngest in the generation home to care for the elders (that being me, and y'know, loved her, love my dad, but ... NO.)
But, coming back to the point of this, being Jinx - yes, more background would help. I need to know why, and what other influences her daughters had, or if this was a co-dependent relationship scenario.