I thought about The season 5 (2006) finale episode
Mr. Monk Goes to a Rock Concert today and I began to think about what you said about the plot on
Monk in the episode of
Mr. Monk and the Captain's Marriage really mirroring Ted Levine's real life marriage. Would the writer's really add this subplot without Ted Levine's approval? It doesn't seem likely to me. Karen Stottlemeyer is pretty demonized as a cold unsympathetic liberal ex-hippy "flake" who shows no empathy or understanding towards her long suffering conservative husband instead prefering to spend her days practicing yoga, PETA -like meetings, attending no-nuke rallys, and being extremely anti-gun. So "flakey" that she refuses to allow her husband to carry a gun on the job as a police captain. Ted Levine's wife's name is (K)im, Stotts wife"s name is (K)aren. Ted Levine's son is named (M)ack, Stott's Son is named (M)ax and Jared. A coincidence? maybe. Will we be seeing Stottlemeyer get back with his wife
Glen Headly next season? That would be quite a coincidence.

. What did you mean by the term "hippy marriage"? Were you refering to a common law marriage?
I"m sorry if I said something to make you mad. I know absolutely nothing about how the writers get their stories. I do think the actors are allowed to contribute something, sometimes. I don't have the slightest idea if it's a coincidence or not. I wasn't refering to a "common law" marriage, as you should know, we have those down here in N.C. too. What i meant by a hippy marriage is you meet a guy at an event like a concert or a big party and get to know each other real good, enough to get yourself pregnant and maybe hang around each other for a few days or a week and then end up having the baby without telling the guy until you need some child support. These days the young folks call it "my baby's mamma". As if that explains it any better. It's a no commitment, non-monogamous, wham bam thank you maam relationship that ended up producing a child whose parents are not commited to each other. You see good examples on Jerry Springer or Dr. Phil. Hope that helps, off to work again.