QUOTE (kleahey @ Oct 5 2008, 09:24 AM)

Sometimes you can't spare a minute. And we have all done something like that from time to time. Have someone tell a loved one that you are too busy to talk right now, and you will talk to them later...
Yes I have, but that's
not what Elliot did according to the script. I just cannot defend Elliot's actions on this until I see it... right now he's looking like a real jerk ignoring his wife like that.
I can see if he simply ignored her calls on
his phone or if he answered and said, "I'm busy, hon" or if he told Olivia to tell Kathy that he was busy, but that's
not what happened. Kathy called Olivia's phone and Elliot persuaded Olivia to lie to her and tell him he was somewhere else. You all wouldn't have issue with your spouse if you discovered that he or she were in the same room with the person's phone you were calling and you found out later that they told that person to lie to you? Yes you would. I would! I would be furious! There's really no reason yet to defend Elliot on this. How busy could he be to tell Kathy that he needs to call her back? In the time it took to produce that story and tell Olivia to lie for him, he could have easily grabbed her phone and said that he was busy... or (again) he could have told Olivia to tell her that he was busy... which is also a jerkish thing to to... but it's better than what he did!
I have ignored calls and I have said I am busy... but the only time I have gone to the extent of lying is when somebody else called my friend's phone is when this stalkerish dude was trying to talk to me. You are just not a good friend if you go that far to getting someone else to lie... unless you have your reasons and that person did something to make you upset with them. My sister has told me to tell her (now) ex that she's not in... that's because she was upset with him.
There's another possibility... maybe Elliot was doing something risky and didn't want to "worry Kathy" as some keep saying. Huh? How would this make her less worried? If she resorts to calling Olivia then obviously the woman is worried as it is. How would lying to her make her less concerned. If I didn't want to worry someone... I would answer and reassure them that I was okay. If I wasn't really okay, but I didn't want them panicking... I would play it off like I was.
I can understand that some are extreme shippers and will try to think of anything that will make Kathy and Elliot's relationship seem void of any issues. The truth is... issues will arise in relationships. that's not giving in to EO... that's just accepting that Elliot and Kathy could have problems. This script is either displaying his crappiness as a husband or suggesting that there is a problem. I can't wait to see this episode. Maybe, just maybe I am dead wrong and there is an issue so extreme that he feels he needed to do what he did. For now, I can't think of anything that excuses what he did. If I am wrong, I definitely cannot wait to see this episode! Because that means there will be tons of action and probably a life or death situation or something...