QUOTE (ciaddict @ Oct 28 2007, 03:46 PM)

I'll try to make this story as short as I can (but I'm not too good at short!). I'm a nurse, too. We never did autopsies, so the only dead bodies I've seen are those in the hospital who have just died. When my older kids were 13, 11, and 8 their father (my first husband--I was newly married to #3) was killed in a car accident. My ex-mother-in-law insisted the kids needed to see his body the day before the funeral. I could see my 11 y/o son was NOT wanting to go, but against my better judgment I let his grandma talk him into it. It was very traumatic for him and he refused to go to the funeral until I PROMISED he would not have to see his father's body, even from a distance. A few months later I was working one Saturday and my new husband took the kids to church (we are Seventh-day Adventists). This was a large church on the campus of a college. When I got home I found out that my 11y/o's Sabbath school class had taken a field trip to the Biology department to see a couple of cadavers. My son didn't have the nerve to refuse to go in, so when I got home he was pretty upset. Upset doesn't begin to describe my emotions! They took a field trip without getting permission, or even notifying the parents at all. I called the teacher and he explained that they do this once a year to show the kids the "wonder of God's creation". I told him all my objections, especially that my son was already traumatized by his father's death. But he didn't see why I was so upset. In 20 years, no parent had ever complained! I called the pastor of the church and got the same reaction--"what's the big deal?" "Its a wonderful learning experience for the kids." So I wrote letters to everyone I could think of--every member of the church board (at least 30 people--its a huge church), the Sabbath School superintendent, the president of the college, the head of the Biology department, and I can't even remember who else. I got the same reply from ALL of them. "Sorry your son was uncomfortable, but we feel this is a valuable learning experience for the children and there has never been a complaint from a parent before." Needless to say, we never went back to that church. We began attending a smaller church about 30 miles away--MUCH more nurturing to my children! My son turned out great. He will be 30 in a couple of weeks and just made me a "Grammy" for the first time in March.
OK, not so short, but believe me I could have made it much longer!
And back to the topic at hand--I had noticed all the women MEs. I love Rogers, her dry wit cracks me up.
I think it was wrong for the church to take kids to see cadavers without their parents permission. It was also wrong for TPTB to have such a nonchalant attitude. I am glad that your son turned out ok and congratulations on becoming a Grammy!
I think it is cool that the ME's on Law and Order are women. One of the things I have always liked about L&O is that they have strong female characters.