QUOTE (Jryan @ May 19 2008, 12:33 PM)

Well yall I am more worried, my family doctor acted like it wasn't that big of a deal, so maybe it isn't, but last night, I was showing my husband, how my doctor made the hernia stick out more, by doing a situp. Well when I did that I noticed it got bigger, instead of being a ball, it is now, 10inches long and 6 inches wide, I called my surgeons nurse again, finally got to talk to her, so I should hear something back today or tomorrow, nobody seems panicy but me, so guess it isn't a big deal, I am a nurse, but never delt with this, I did mostly ob, and peds. I just can't eat too much, which I guess is good, but now I think I won't continue to do my water arobics, think I will stick to just walking, don't want anymore poping out.
Jryan.

QUOTE (tashafallen @ May 19 2008, 01:32 PM)

OMG OMG !!!! I GOT THE JOB AT THE BAKERY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

QUOTE (spookycc @ May 19 2008, 03:31 PM)

Wow, those are BLUE eyes.
You are so secure, tasha. You're not afraid to post big photos of yourself. I think that rox. I won't even post a LITTLE pic of me.

I never had a great self-image even BEFORE I was heavy.

Aw Spook, I am sure you are wonderful...we love you even if you are green and have antenaes!!
QUOTE (CriminallyInsane @ May 19 2008, 03:53 PM)

My eyes are chocolate chips
MMM VDO eyes...melty!
QUOTE (Jryan @ May 19 2008, 04:10 PM)


Ok I will be brave, here is my close up Mr. Deville!
As you can see, I have Bobby's Brown eyes, awww.
Eames' Roots, yes time for a dye job, dam just had one last month, then gray hairs come up fast, wish I could be like VDO and just let them grow.
If I smile, it gets rid of the sags around my mouth, but then creates wrinkles around my eyes, Told hubby for christmas I want restaline injection, lol. But then they only last about a year and a half. Don't know why my veins show up so much in my eyes, got a nice one showing up in my left eye there, But will be 46 next month and I think I look pretty good for 46.
oh FYI notice the scar over the right eye, I slipped in the bath tub at 8 yrs old and had to get stitches.
You have beautiful eyes and a lovely smile! Much braver than I am...I hate my picture taken, especially closeups...I can never smile on command and if I try it looks so fake...
QUOTE (Bubba_Bridges @ May 19 2008, 04:33 PM)

Hi Bubba here, I just wanted to drop by and see how everyone was doing. The last time I was on here, was the last of April before the internet was cut off, a lot of things have changed since. We have moved and for the most part are set up at our new place. Boy, my feet are tired.
Like I said, on April 22nd our internet was cut off. Then on May 2nd, we had a lot of bad storms hit the area and one point, it look like a tornado was heading for us, luckily the storm weaken and move on. The next day, a friend of a friend, came over and asked my folks if there was looking for a new place, and if so, they had one they wanted them to look at. We end up taking the place and start moving in the following week.
I am glad to be at our new place, our old place had way too many problems to mention.
Thanks to everyone who thought of me while I was away.
Welcome back!
QUOTE (Jryan @ May 19 2008, 05:50 PM)

did you think hooker?lol. Well spook even though your not comfortable posting your outsides, your are beautiful on the inside, and that is all that counts, in my 46 years, I have met many people who might be pretty on the outside but are rotten to the core on the inside, And I must say, I would rather be ugly on the outside and have a good inside anyday. Thats why It doesn't bother me to show my picture, I am no beauty queen and was teased all through school, Flabby Abby, over and over again, I didn't lose weight until my senior year, and still people teased me, cause they were ugly on the inside, wasn't till I met my husband, who like I said has loved me at 120 lbs 400 lbs and now I am at 220 and losing it again, every day tells me I am beautiful. I know there are more beautiful women out there, but to him I am the most beautiful woman in the world and he makes me believe it. I never want for anything. Ok now I am crying, I am suppose to be encouragning you. Like I said before, and with Tasha, Its so sad that people look at us and make opinions of us just by our looks, if you have tats and piercings you must be a hoodlum, if you fat, you must be lazy slob and eat too much, they don't realize its in your genitics and metabolism. If your black, your a crook, when I worked the night shift at the hospital, I worked with all blacks, the nicest sweetest people you would ever know.
but spook, your beautiful, dont let anyone ever say different. If you don't have anyone telling you that every day, Make a sign, put it on your mirror and I want that sign to say,.
Abby says I am Beautiful, and Yes, I am a beautiful Person.
Aww now you got me all teary eyed too....I hated school, for partially the same reasons...that and the rumors going around about my mother and a couple teachers....It does suck how much people judge others, without having known them at all!
Reminds me of a wall hanging my gram had..."Never judge a man, until you walk a mile in his shoes".
QUOTE (andyc @ May 19 2008, 07:15 PM)

Hey. Tasha, unless you are talking about tattoes, I don't know what "a tats" is. I'm going to assume that's what you mean. From your comments that I highlighted it sounds to me like it's cultural and probably "older" people forming these opinons about you. But intelligent people know that it's not what you see on the outside, it's what's on the inside that counts. What's in your heart. Your ethics, loyalty, honesty, integrity. What makes a person isn't how they wear their hair or if they have tattoes (my wife has 2) or piercings or the color of their skin, etc. It sounds to me that you aren't the problem; it's theirs and unfortunately it's their loss, not yours. If you weren't an intelligent person you wouldn't be owning your own home or working for the US goverment; and now a new job I see; Congratulations! I love your comment in the first paragraph that you "hope to change their minds" and that you are "always polite and show them what a good person you are". That is so neat and I commend you for that. Keep it up, no matter how long it takes. Don't let them win. You are a good person and just let that shine through.
Andy
Well said Andy...ITA!