QUOTE (ciaddict @ Mar 18 2008, 09:19 PM)

I guess I didn't explain it well enough--I didn't ask for the time off, I just told her I'm not coming in. I have about 240 hours sick time, so they can't really refuse. My supervisor isn't happy about it, but I decided her unhappiness was something I could live with.
She said they might need a note from the doctor. Also, if they make it all "unscheduled" time off (which means I didn't ask 48 hours in advance), then it will show up in my yearly performence review.
I'm glad you shared this with your daughter. The doctor told my daughter that she had to have hit her head REALLY hard to cause the fracture that it did, and with that kind of impact its not unusual to see the (can't remember the spelling--bad, bad nurse!) "contracoup" type injury where the brain bounces around inside the skull. That can cause all kinds of permanent damage or death. In fact, didn't I just hear M.E. Rodgers explaing that injury to Logan and Wheeler recently? Don't remember the episode off the top of my head. Anyway, it was the kind of stupid messing around that teens do every day without any injuries--but all it takes is one small slip. There were a lot of kids around when it happened and I think everyone of them has called or come by to see her--including the boy driving the car. He feels horrible and I really feel sorry for him. He absolutely should not have moved that car an inch with anyone on the hood--but my daughter was being a brat! Sorry to hear about your daughter, ciaddict. I'm praying for both of you right now for a speedy recovery. My mom has been on her back (literally) since last week when she tried to do a tango move with my dad. That says it all about his dancing skils... She injured her back fairly badly about ten years ago, then again about a year ago, and it took her a long time for her to fully recover (she was working on and off for six months).
Now she's only working half days. Her supervisors are very understanding, but she does worry about what clients she can and can't see. My mom has made it clear to me that when she is dealing with people who are suicidal, having to deal with Child Welfare, and sometimes strugling to change patterns of anger, lack of communication, abuse & addiction, sometimes cancelling an appointment is the thing that can tip them over the edge. I'm reading a book on homeless women in Canada right now, which is very sobering, but oddly encouraging, because the woman are very resiliant. Granted we don't have the same number of homeless people that the US deals with, but there are certain areas/districts in any city over about 800,000 that you don't venture near. I've noticed it a lot in Calgary over the past year, because we are the fastest growing city in Canada. We've had around 100,000 people move here this last year alone.
Oh, and to keep this OT, what did everyone think of Barack Obama's speech today on race? I watched it online, and it was very interesting and very timely. He's an excellent speaker, and way more interesting then Canada's politicians (though do not get me started on Steven Harper lately). His reputation is totally ruined in my eyes.
Anyway, I'm watching a documentary on New York for my museum studies class, and they were talking about Robert Moses, the architect who was singlehandly responsible for bulding the infastructure of NYC during the Depression (think of the Tri-Bourough Bridge, Central Park, etc). He was also very influencial in planning the highway and freeway system of the entire state. The effect of that was to seperate the Black (and later the Hispanic) community into Harlem. Then there was the Urban Renewal Project in the 1950's, which removed African and Spanish Americans from their homes to make room for white Americans. Other state planners of other cities in the 50's and 60's did that too. My aunt & uncle lived in Lubbock, TX for five years starting around 2000, while my aunt taught at Texas Tech College, and they were saddened by the clear segregation of the black community there.
Please do not misunderstand me here. I'm NOT saying Canada doesn't have racism. We unfortunately do.

But in Canada, a lot of the racial and cultural segregation (and eradication in the sake of culture with the residential schools and government policy) happened and to a degree still happens to the Native Canadians. That's why you never hear anyone call them anything other then Native, Aboriginal, or First Nations since as long as I remember. In my mind, (and I'm not the only Canadian), I consider the word Indian a racial slur, and cringe when I am forced to use it for the sake of historical authenticity. It would be like using the N word for Black Americans.
Anyway, I'm rambing on, and I really have to get to bed. Good night, everyone.