QUOTE (LOCIFan2 @ Feb 9 2008, 09:38 AM)

I have moved this conversation and my reply over from the Writers Strike Thread, where it was Off-Topic.
To make blocks of context distinct, I alternated quotes in black and green and, wrote my own comments in blue.
QUOTE (VDOVault @ Feb 7 2008, 10:57 PM)
. . . June 30th, which coincidentally is VDO's 49th birthday),
The Vault
QUOTE(flashymom @ Feb 8 2008, 05:59 AM)
VDO is 48?!?!?! D&MN! He looks goood for 48!
Quote (DetectiveB 02/08/08 Noon
YOU DIDN'T KNOW??!! (he was born:30 June 1959)
QUOTE(Jryan @ Feb 8 2008, 01:34 PM)
I hate to break it to you youngsters but 48 is not old. Forty eight and 49 are prime years. I have gone past it now and I realize how young that really was!!!
Nila
Thanks Nila, I am going to make 46 this year, I liked 45, since it was half way in the middle, now I will be pushing 50, Of course we know women hit their prime in their 40s, so I have been enjoying that.
QUOTE (ciaddict @ Feb 8 2008, 02:55 PM)
JRyan, does that mean its all downhill after 50? Hope not, because I'm headed for 51 in two months! I love the scene in On Golden Pond where Kathryn Hepburn is describing some new neighbors to Henry Fonda as "as nice middle-aged couple like us". And he responds, "Ethel, people do not live to be 150!"
I can say from experience, that is definitely not "all downhill after 50." I went back to college at 52 and graduated with an A.A. Degree at 55. In 2008, I'll turn 58.
What's young and/or old is "relative." When I was in my 20s, I can remember my grandmother referring to "that nice young man who delivers my groceries," then discovering he was in his 50s and the parent of teenagers.
Likewise, my father (aged 84), thinks we are all kids. He lives alone, does his own cooking; 2 years ago, he took his great-grandson (age 7) across country for a week (just the two of them); and, a few months ago he took a 2 week vacation in Europe alone.
Incidentally, my father and his two older brothers were all heavy smokers (my father, 4 packs a day) for several decades. Both of his brothers died of sudden heart attacks in their 40s (43 and 46); my father had a heart attack at age 57, gave up smoking (cold turkey), and adopted healthier habits. Twenty-some years later, he works out every day, takes no medication, and does pretty much what he wants, when he wants; though he complains that he gets tired quicker and it takes him longer to recover his energy. My grandmother was living alone and taking care of all of her own business until she was 87 (she never smoked and never drove a car in her lifetime.)
So, it definitely isn't all downhill after 50!
If you smoke, please give it up!
LOCIFan2
Excellent advice. When I was 8 (in 1962) the county health nurse came around to our school to give a talk on the evils of smoking. As we were ushered into the classroom I noticed there were two tables at the front, each with a cloth that was covering something which we could not see. The nurse told us if we don't smoke at all (and she pulled the cloth off what was on table #1)then our lungs would look like this when we were 50. She presented to us a BELL JAR containing a set of lungs that were large and pink and very healthy. She then said if you start at 16 and smoke at least a pack a day until you are 50 your lungs would look like this (and she pulled the cloth off what was on table #2) to reveal the sickliest looking bunch of grapes that would be your lungs at that age. Long story short, I don't smoke because of that single event over 46 years ago. The sad thing is. they don't do this demonstration anymore in our schools.