Evenstar, thank you for answering me! I really appreciate it and I would like to address your points one at a time. I'd also like to say I'm glad what Isabelle did to Shawn bothers you-you're the first person to answer that question.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

isabelle, who had just loss her mom,i think if lily had been there isy would not have found herself in a situation where she behave the way she did...coz her mother would have truly looked out for her unlike shawn &richard who both promise to look after her yeah right...
This I agree with. Lily's death was a terrible loss to Isabelle. Richard kept saying she wasn't really grown up, but talk is cheap and his actions were those of a man dealing with a grown woman. It's no wonder Isabelle didn't know what to think when her father was giving her such a mixed message. As for Shawn, he should have stuck with his determination to remain just friends. I don't think Isabelle would have been so possesive if Shawn had refused to sleep with her to begin with.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

so somewhere down the road yeah shawn got what he was looking for , i felt sorry for him but i didnt think he was completely undeserving of it, i mean he tried to kill her she never did, she saved his life and what does she get not even a thank u he acts as if she's a leper, i really resented his reaction yet if she was willing to look past his flaws so was i,
This I strongly disagree with. Isabelle did not love Shawn-she has admitted as much this season. Her behavior last year was typical of an abuser who wants to keep their victim close. As for Shawn trying to kill her, he was acting out of fear and in self-defense. There are many women in the real world who have killed abusive men in their sleep and gotten off scot-free, because people do recognize that if a person is terrified and unable to escape, they are entitled to use deadly force to protect themselves, even if they are not in danger of imminent harm. I also think a lot of the desire to Shawn and Isabelle getting back together is gender-based. I don't believe a man who treated a woman the way Isabelle treated Shawn would get this kind of support to get the woman back.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

as for the wedding if he was so adamant about not marrying her he didnt have too which he ended doing just that,so sorry if i dont buy into the whole he was so afraid of isabelle, he was not happy she was in charges of their personal life and pushing him in adirection he didnt want to...if issy was a normal person she'd get that that was not the best way to going about getting what she wants but she's not...she knew what she wanted and went after it and YES THAT WAS WRONG OF HER..
I'm glad to hear you recognize that Isabelle was wrong. I have to strongly disagree again about the wedding-you say Shawn was not afraid of Isabelle but that's just not true. Last year everybody but Jordan was afraid of Isabelle. Remember that she threatened Shawn's mother, and him and Richard both talked to her about how Shawn didn't love her and didn't want to marry her, and she just brushed them off. To say that Shawn was not happy because Isabelle was in charge of their personal life, in my opinion, is trivializing the issue. She wasn't picking out what shirt he should wear. She was threatening him, and he knew she had the power to back her threats up, and that she had already killed people and hurt her father. Certainly he was afraid of her and he was being forced into the wedding. And naturally Shawn would grab the chance to get away from this marriage that he did not want, to a woman he did not love. We'll have to agree to disagree about the chemistry-they had chemistry as friends, but I didn't see any chemistry as lovers. Isabelle was too driven and Shawn was too scared-it was an ugly relationship.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

she was so convince that her &shawn had to be coz he was the only one who could stop her from doing what she was destined to do kill4400 i bought into that
I didn't buy that for a second. To me, it was just one more indicator of Isabelle's emotional immaturity. Children expect others to keep them out of trouble. Adults keep themselves out of trouble. Children do what they are told. Adults do what they think is right for them. If Isabelle was too emotionally immature to decide what direction her life should take, she certainly shouldn't have been trying to latch onto someone else to do it for her.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

i swear shawn is an immature kid just as much as isabelle,
I agree with you, and it's one more reason why they should not have been in a serious relationship.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

on screen they mesh like no other(a touch of destiny about these two)remember end of season two when she appeared naked before shawn ,i mean of all people? like duh seasons to come stem from that first encounter...
And I hope the rest of this season, and if we get another season, next season, will stem from Isabelle's admission that she knows what they had was not love, and Shawn's response, no it wasn't.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

lastly i believe that when isabelle goes into commando mode she loses touch with her human side
I think you're right about this.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

i love the exchange they had with baby baby baby words hilarious(totally i love u i love u not) no indifference there...
Oh, please don't say that! That was not a funny scene, or a touching scene. Isabelle was toying with Shawn like a cat with a mouse. He was finally standing up to her, even though he knew he was going to get hurt. That scene reminds me of every graphic rape scene I've ever seen on film, like a man with a knife to a woman's throat forcing her to say how much she likes what he's doing. It made me sick to see Isabelle in that scene, and I've been trying not to hold it against her, because I believe she is trying to reform now. That scene shows the depths of cruelty to which Isabelle can sink and I hope nothing like that ever happens again.
QUOTE (evenstar22 @ Aug 5 2007, 11:19 AM)

i know this aint no soap-opera
For which I am grateful. The soap opera route is strictly to titillate and amuse the viewers-the producers of the 4400 are trying to do something more realistic here. I hope they stick with realism, because realistically Shawn would never want to be in a relationship with Isabelle again. Well, I do appreciate your response, and I hope I've given you something to think about too.